You can't prove me wrong as I have made a point of never saying anything like 'you are ____'. Always 'that is ____'. If I find myslef approaching the 'Dark Side' I delete the comment I was making and come back in a hour. If you can prove me wrong, I'll happily apoligise, as I never ever mean to personally insult anyone. (Spammers not included)
It's not my responsibility how you percieve my comments, it's just my own self respect that guides me to never break the 'ad hominem' rule of debate. It's never personal.
OTI could simply adopt the same attitude, and not take offense where Martin offered none. Rebutting Martin's opinion is easy after that, as no one has been convicted of murder in the Dzienkanski incident, so no one is a 'murderer'. Incorrect adjective. Did they get away with murder? That's a matter of opinion.

That is such bullshit.
Actually, good post Caleb. I will endeavor to model myself after what you have described.