A complete medical history of the donor should be presented to the birth-mother prior to insemination and such documentation kept by the family and included in the child's medical history. Other than that, that is all they need to know if the donor requested anonymity.
There are many emotional factors involved when it comes to IUI ir IVF treatments, as well as donations. Unless you have gone through it you will never be able to totally understand why a person does it.
We did not have to use a donor, but we did have to have IUI done for 3 of our 4 kids. Yes, we could have adopted but we could not afford it and we wanted biological kids first. We have not ruled out adoption/fostering later when our kids are older.
As long as the donation process was in line with the existing rules, regulation and laws that were in force at the time of donation, there is no case. The only thing that should be given to her is her donor father's medical history if it still exists.
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