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PostPosted: Sat Jan 12, 2008 1:47 pm
 


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humiliating your child isn't a good parenting skill.


Obviously setting a simple rule, such as "no booze in the car" didn't work

So time to try something else. Hopefully this will knock some sense into the kid.
How is he supposed to transport it from the store to home?


In Alberta it cant be in the driving compartment which is pretty well inside the vehicle anywhere.
All liquor or just open liquor? I think in BC it's fine to have in the vehicle as long as it hasn't been opened.


All,I was told before xmas to take my just purchased box of beer out of the back of my crewcab and put it in the back by an RCMP. It was news to me.


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PostPosted: Sat Jan 12, 2008 1:48 pm
 


RUEZ RUEZ:
newfette newfette:
RUEZ RUEZ:
martin14 martin14:
RUEZ RUEZ:
humiliating your child isn't a good parenting skill.


Obviously setting a simple rule, such as "no booze in the car" didn't work

So time to try something else. Hopefully this will knock some sense into the kid.
Discipline is always appropriate when dealing with a child. Humiliation however is not.


but she didn't humiliate him... she didn't print his name or a photo or anything.. she just stated the reason WHY she was selling the car
You don't think that in the town they live this isn't full public knowledge? This isn't good parenting. Selling his car was a good decisions, making a public spectacle out of it was over the line.



I dont tihink it was.. i mean his friends were gonna find out anyways when he suddenly started taking the bus again.. and in a town of 25000 believe it or not not everyone knows everyone elses business..

again.. she didn't print a name. i live in a town of about 12000 people and if i saw an ad like that in our local paper chances are I wouldn't know who it was.

i still think she made the right call


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PostPosted: Sat Jan 12, 2008 1:49 pm
 


ziggy ziggy:
RUEZ RUEZ:
ziggy ziggy:
Tricks Tricks:
martin14 martin14:
RUEZ RUEZ:
humiliating your child isn't a good parenting skill.


Obviously setting a simple rule, such as "no booze in the car" didn't work

So time to try something else. Hopefully this will knock some sense into the kid.
How is he supposed to transport it from the store to home?


In Alberta it cant be in the driving compartment which is pretty well inside the vehicle anywhere.
All liquor or just open liquor? I think in BC it's fine to have in the vehicle as long as it hasn't been opened.


All,I was told before xmas to take my just purchased box of beer out of the back of my crewcab and put it in the back by an RCMP. It was news to me.


from what i remember it can't be within reach of the driver... but i could be wrong


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PostPosted: Sat Jan 12, 2008 1:50 pm
 


newfette newfette:
Tricks Tricks:
martin14 martin14:
RUEZ RUEZ:
humiliating your child isn't a good parenting skill.


Obviously setting a simple rule, such as "no booze in the car" didn't work

So time to try something else. Hopefully this will knock some sense into the kid.
How is he supposed to transport it from the store to home?


in the trunk..

either way if he's a teenage he shouldn't have it in the first place cause isn't the legal age in Iowa 21????????
Trunk = part of the car. And do you think he won't be driving in 2 years or something?


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PostPosted: Sat Jan 12, 2008 1:51 pm
 


RUEZ RUEZ:
ziggy ziggy:
Tricks Tricks:
martin14 martin14:
RUEZ RUEZ:
humiliating your child isn't a good parenting skill.


Obviously setting a simple rule, such as "no booze in the car" didn't work

So time to try something else. Hopefully this will knock some sense into the kid.
How is he supposed to transport it from the store to home?


In Alberta it cant be in the driving compartment which is pretty well inside the vehicle anywhere.
All liquor or just open liquor? I think in BC it's fine to have in the vehicle as long as it hasn't been opened.
Which isn't mentioned in the article.


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PostPosted: Sat Jan 12, 2008 1:52 pm
 


newfette newfette:
i still think she made the right call
I just wonder why she made the point of including the whole story about her son in the ad for the car. It had no bearing on his punishment and she would have sold the car without that information. It seems to me she wanted a little more out of this than just to punish her son.





PostPosted: Sat Jan 12, 2008 1:52 pm
 


newfette newfette:
ziggy ziggy:
RUEZ RUEZ:
ziggy ziggy:
Tricks Tricks:
martin14 martin14:
RUEZ RUEZ:
humiliating your child isn't a good parenting skill.


Obviously setting a simple rule, such as "no booze in the car" didn't work

So time to try something else. Hopefully this will knock some sense into the kid.
How is he supposed to transport it from the store to home?


In Alberta it cant be in the driving compartment which is pretty well inside the vehicle anywhere.
All liquor or just open liquor? I think in BC it's fine to have in the vehicle as long as it hasn't been opened.


All,I was told before xmas to take my just purchased box of beer out of the back of my crewcab and put it in the back by an RCMP. It was news to me.


from what i remember it can't be within reach of the driver... but i could be wrong


Not according to the RCMP who waved me to stop from a block away and told me to put it outside.I thought it was if it was in reach also.So trunk our back of the truck is all thats allowed here.


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PostPosted: Sat Jan 12, 2008 1:53 pm
 


And people wonder what drives some adult children to siphon cash out of their old and feeble parent’s bank accounts when they become dependent on the children. 8O


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PostPosted: Sat Jan 12, 2008 2:01 pm
 


This is from the government of BC website.

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You are allowed to carry liquor in a motor vehicle provided it is sealed and not readily accessible to anyone in the motor vehicle (stored behind the seat, in the trunk, etc.)

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PostPosted: Sat Jan 12, 2008 2:04 pm
 


RUEZ RUEZ:
newfette newfette:
RUEZ RUEZ:
martin14 martin14:
RUEZ RUEZ:
humiliating your child isn't a good parenting skill.


Obviously setting a simple rule, such as "no booze in the car" didn't work

So time to try something else. Hopefully this will knock some sense into the kid.
Discipline is always appropriate when dealing with a child. Humiliation however is not.


but she didn't humiliate him... she didn't print his name or a photo or anything.. she just stated the reason WHY she was selling the car
You don't think that in the town they live this isn't full public knowledge? This isn't good parenting. Selling his car was a good decisions, making a public spectacle out of it was over the line.


I agree with you Ruez... It could have been kept in the house why she sold the car, and maybe tell the buyer why, when he asks for it.

The idea of selling it is punishment enough (if you would go that far...), no need to make it this public.


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PostPosted: Sat Jan 12, 2008 2:10 pm
 


I'd like to see a typical newspaper ad get that much attention - she knows how to advertise!


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PostPosted: Sat Jan 12, 2008 2:42 pm
 


Tricks Tricks:
martin14 martin14:
RUEZ RUEZ:
humiliating your child isn't a good parenting skill.


Obviously setting a simple rule, such as "no booze in the car" didn't work

So time to try something else. Hopefully this will knock some sense into the kid.
How is he supposed to transport it from the store to home?



Wow, this part of the thread really took off.

Folks, this is in Iowa. I am not aware of any state in the US where it would be legal for him to have it in the car for another two years.


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PostPosted: Sat Jan 12, 2008 2:56 pm
 


Wullu Wullu:
Tricks Tricks:
martin14 martin14:
RUEZ RUEZ:
humiliating your child isn't a good parenting skill.


Obviously setting a simple rule, such as "no booze in the car" didn't work

So time to try something else. Hopefully this will knock some sense into the kid.
How is he supposed to transport it from the store to home?



Wow, this part of the thread really took off.

Folks, this is in Iowa. I am not aware of any state in the US where it would be legal for him to have it in the car for another two years.
Think the rule will change it two years? I don't. I'm not arguing the legal aspect, I'm arguing the mother's rule of no booze in the car.


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PostPosted: Sat Jan 12, 2008 3:06 pm
 


I feel absolutely ZERO sympathy for this kid. Zero, none, nada. Mom laid down down two dirt simple rules.

Ya pays your money, ya takes your chances. He was obviously too stupid to obey a simple rule. Given that fact, I am just as happy as he in not on the road. There are enough stupid people behind the wheel.


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PostPosted: Sat Jan 12, 2008 3:33 pm
 


Well she doesn’t have to worry about if her son drinks and drives anymore, the problem now is she has to worry about her son catching a ride home with each and everyone of his friends that could be drunk and driving.


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