wildrosegirl wildrosegirl:
Who the hell cares? Child molestation is child molestation and should be punished by death. Doesn't matter if it's a boy or girl or if it's committed by a man or woman.
Ummm, Homosexuals? I agree, hurting a child is the worst form of crime, but being gay isn't a crime.
BartSimpson BartSimpson:
DrCaleb DrCaleb:
Homosexuality, rape and paedophilia are only equated by the uneducated.
In general, you're right. But in this case you're oblivious.
I disagree. I've done a lot of reading on the subject. While the cause of paedophilia is unknown, it is known that most pedophiles struggle daily with the sexual attraction to children, and knowing it's wrong to hurt children. Most never act on it.
What's known is that homosexuals are not sexually attracted to children.
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The website is a rare spot where pedophiles can acknowledge their problem and seek help to keep their impulses under control, without fear of being exposed to a world where hysteria about child molesters can cloud any understanding of and research into the problem of pedophilia.
Of course, not everyone agrees with its purpose.
The Virginia-based National Centre for Missing and Exploited Children, for example, fears that sites like Virtuous Pedophiles operate merely under the guise of helping pedophiles remain celibate, but instead enable them to trade tips and tricks on how to groom children for sexual purposes.
"While on the cover you think there may be legitimate reasons and purposes, not everybody who joins those groups has an altruistic motive," says John Shehan, executive director of the centre's exploited child division.
But James Cantor, an internationally-recognized expert on pedophilia at Toronto's Centre for Addiction and Mental Health, calls it a "wonderful organization" that helps a largely invisible group support each other to keep from committing crimes.
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n Germany, a project titled Prevention Project Dunkelfeld (which translates as dark fields) taps into that need for anonymity. The free program gives confidential treatment — no names required — by phone or Skype to those trying to control their pedophilia.
The website says that no one will be condemned for their sexual preference, "but everyone is responsible for their sexual behaviour."
"With the help of specialized therapy, men with a sexual preference disorder can learn to act responsibly," the home page says.
That kind of anonymous therapy is impossible in Canada where psychologists are required to keep a complete file — name and address included — of everyone they see in therapy.
Here in Canada, Cantor laments a system that prevents therapists from helping pedophiles.
"It's difficult to imagine such a curse. Who can they tell? From their point of view, they can't tell a therapist, they can't tell their parents, their peers, their boyfriends, girlfriends," said Cantor. "They are as alone as a person can be."
http://www.cbc.ca/news/canada/virtuous- ... -1.2710160