[Gonzo]

It looks like it’s up to our elected to see if equality is for all. As for the argument that it will lead to polygamy, that doesn’t hold up. We are talking about two people getting married, not more. No one has to marry them if they don’t want to. I’m a straight man who will be marrying my girlfriend of 6 years soon, and I don’t feel that our traditional marriage will be lessened, or be in danger because of gay marriages. I really don’t understand the argument against it.
Polygamy, literally many marriages in ancient Greek, is a marital practice in which a person has more than one spouse simultaneously (as opposed to monogamy where each person has a maximum of one spouse at any one time). The term is often used in a de facto sense, applying regardless of whether such marriages are legally recognised.
What does this have to do with gay marriage?

[Robair]

Click this link then click the "Who would you marry?" link on the left side of the page.

I think Rick nails the average Canucks opinion on this.

Who really gives a crap? Does harper think Canadians really believe it to be that big an issue? Repulican campaigns won't work here buddy, Canada doesn't have a 'bible belt' thank Christ.

I live in the so-called bible belt and these people are looney. (And I'm a fairly devote Catholic.)

[canadian1971]

EQUALITY FOR ALL.....NO PROBLEM!

DIRTY MAN SEX.....PROBLEM!

LOL..TO EACH THIER OWN.

[jadeofthenorth]

I just wouldn't feel very nice if I wanted to marry, say a woman of different rade than myself, and someone said that was wrong and would lead to problems in society.

I'm offically for gay marriage, but its really a silly issue.

[Gonzo]

In The Neatherlands they have same sex marriages, and there is no problems. I agree, it's a silly issue.

[Streaker]

I agree it really is a non-issue, or at least it should be. The attention this has been getting in the media is pretty mind-boggling when you consider that there are more important matters that the government should be attending to.

My personal opinion is that same-sex marriage should be allowed but I guess I can understand the concern of some people who feel that religious denominations could eventually be compelled to perform same-sex wedding ceremonies.

[AdamNF]

I think its funny the only ones talking about polygamy is the right. They brought it up and are the only ones descusing it.

Also i do not think this is an issue that deserves so much press. In a free country people should be equal, we dont live in Tripoli.

[Dan74]

I am on the "I don't give a shit"side of the fence on this and I am a right winger.In the past I have always said the right needs to get off the moral high horse and let people decide how they live in their own personnal life.
But I do agree that Churchs should have the right to refuse to take part.Some beliefs are against this lifestyle and I am a firm believer in freedom of religion.

[Wheels]

Everyone should be have the same rights in canada.

[Ralph]

Wheels Wheels:

Everyone should be have the same rights in canada.

AGREE 100%

[QBC]

I still don't get the whole "issue". Two people, (hopefully) in love, want to get married. I love the born agains saying, "we're defending traditional marriage". Against what? No one is saying the straight people can't get married any more. We're going to waste millions of tax dollars on this "BULLSHIT ISSUE".........Must be a slow time in Canadian politics.........

[jadeofthenorth]

Heres my favorite argument:

"We must protect the sanctity of marriage"

Then make divorce illegal. Thats the biggest bullshit argument ever. If 'the sanctity or marriage' is so important than people who commit adultry should go to jail.

I have never seen a good argument from the anti-gay marriage side
"It will hurt society" or
"Its unnatural" are complete bullshit and just don't cut it.

[Rev_Blair]

You haven't heard a good argument from them because they haven't got one, Jade. Their real argument, the one the politicians can't use in public, is that it's against their religion.

[Juno]

My opinion....

Personally..... I dont think same-sex relationships are right. Certainly not for me! That said, each to their own. I wont bother you if you dont bother me!

As for the laws of the land (Nationally).... one could argue that the gay community could be considered a culture of its own. Canada has long been known for its multi-culturalism and with that I think we should allow same-sex unions. It is the right thing to do! We need to allow our citizens to be happy in the lifestyle they choose.

As for Chruches.... Churches should be permitted to choose if the wish to perform same-sex unions or not. It may very well be against their culture/religion and probably has been for centuries... we need to respect that too.

The arguement here is all about respecting individual choice!

Cheers

[Erinites]

Rebuttal to an article posted in our local paper...

Dear Editor:
I am sure many people feel the same as Mr. regarding same sex marriages as they felt when women where given the right to vote.
However, there are a few issues that did not sit well with me.
His second paragraph mentions “The benefits to society regarding the union between a man and a woman and the stability, nurturing and balanced home they provide.”

Dad is an abusive alcoholic who beats wife and kids!
Mom is a drunk whom is verbally abusive and kicks the dog too!
Is this beneficial procreation? Is this behaviour to be copied?

This union was permitted because they are heterosexual.
Marriage is a solemn vow taken by two consenting adults who LOVE each other.
A vow taken in front of God and several witnesses.
Sexuality (for the most the most part) is defined at birth.
It is not always a choice.

Now which is the lesser of two evils?
Lying to God, witnesses and yourself at the altar?
Or, “To thy own self be true” in the eyes of your witnesses and God!

As far as adoption policies are concerned; the screening process is long, rigorous and thorough.
If a same- sex couple succeeds then “BOO-YAH!!!” to them and many happy wishes!

When women were given the right to vote, A wave of polyandry did NOT ensue.
Hence, I fail to see how same-sex marriages could lead to the downfall of modern society.

For those of us who have children, “LOVE” is unconditional!
One day your son or daughter confides in you that they prefer the same gender.
What are you gonna do? Turn off the “Love” switch? Just stop loving them?
Homophobia is a form of racism.
Some phobias stem from a misinformed upbringing.

Gays and Lesbians have jobs, pay taxes and vote just as we all do.
I feel they should have they same rights as we tax paying, working and voting heterosexuals.
The “Canadian Charter of Rights” is beautiful Legal Literature, which one should read.

http://laws.justice.gc.ca/en/charter/#egalite

If you are so bothered by the issue of same sex marriages, perhaps to take your mind off things, time could be spent lobbying for same sex couples to obtain their own country.
Media informs us that Quebec wants a distinct society.

Just pointing out the absurdity of it all.