michou
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Posted: Sun Jul 11, 2004 2:38 pm
[QUOTE BY= whelan costen] Why is it when I express my concerns on this issue I am told to grow up, or that my opinion makes you sick? How can I possibly understand the passion you display if you don't explain it; you are making many suppositions and assumptions rather than fact. That is all I am asking for but you meet my questions with hostility, why?
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<br />It is not a paternalistic attitude that motivates my questions, and Bill 101 you write off as if it is nothing, but it has caused great hardship for some Anglos, and you say well tough! So once again I am confused, where there are large communities of French speaking people in other parts of Canada, they do work, play etc in French, I grew up in such a community. Obviously there is not the demand elsewhere in Canada for more of these communities, but you are denying Anglos the right to work, play etc. in Quebec in their mother tongue which is also one of the officials languages of Canada. So you are telling me too bad if we don't like it, but then you are saying Quebec is being fair. But again you are also saying too bad because Quebec is a nation, when it is not, yet.
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<br />I just don't understand why a discussion between lay people about the issues, needs to become 'you make me sick or grow up' if that was the issue, then I wouldn't be bothered to have the conversation. Adults do discuss issues, maturity allows both parties to debate their concerns intelligently without name calling.
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<br />When people start saying, too bad for you, this is what we want and tough for the rest, it is hard to take those arguments as founded on solid facts, or not hear frustration that they don't know the facts to argue.
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<br />As far as what do I want you to do, it isn't my desire to make you do something, you brought the issue up and I responded with questions. You have made statements on a forum which is commited to Canadian Sovereignty and for me Quebec is part of that commitment. So when you make comments which clearly threaten that sovereignty I am going to ask the why, where, who, what and when questions.
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<br />I will always ask the questions which I believe will help me to understand the entire issue, I will always demand answers from politicians which help me to decide whether they are acting for Canadians or for themselves. This forum is the voice of Canadians and I desire to know more about the concerns of all Canadians and to consider how we can make Canada better for everyone. That is my purpose, not to talk-down to someone with an opposing opinion but at least debate the opinion expressed if I don't agree. That is democracy is it not? <img align=absmiddle src='images/smilies/confused.gif' alt='Confused'> [/QUOTE]
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<br />Whelan, you come out on this issue with no facts and little information about Québec to back you up. They are assumptions. Like the one about minorities in Québec. I answer your queries to the best of my ability and I do so as an insider. I have given links on the suject and more. Sometimes people only take what they want to hear and they leave what does not fit with their pre-conceived ideas to the side. This is the feeling I'm getting.
<br />The way I see it is that you take your desires for reality. You strongest desire is for Québec to be a province like any other. It is not and it never will. This is why the independance issue still rages on. You would do away with bill 101 and allow French to die off like it is already happening across North America. Bill 101 did not kill anybody nor did it cause "great hardship'" to any Anglos. I have known Anglos, born and raised in Québec, who lived their entire lives here and did not speak a word of French. I don't know of anyone who would think this a sensible approach. In my eyes, it is an insult and affront to the dominant culture that surrounds it. Thankfully, more and more Anglos in Québec today are bilingual and some have even opted for Québec's independance. Yep, you heard me. There are Québec Anglos out there FOR Québec independance.
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<br />Discussions are different than voicing out one's concerns. Discussions should be fact based. Concerns will remain just that unless one checks if they are real or imagined.
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<br />As far as Canada's sovereignty is concerned, I'm all for it and would truly like to see Canada out of American and Canadian corporate control. Canada can and WILL exist as a sovereign nation even without Québec. Neither one needs the other to survive or to make its way and voice heard in this world of ours. Québec wants the same for itself that Canada wants. Sovereignty.
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<br />Let Québécers decide what and who they want to be and I in return will be more than pleased to support and encourage what Canadians will have chosen for themselves.
« Il y a une belle, une terrible rationalité dans la décision d´être libre. » - Gérard Bergeron